Thursday, January 20, 2011

Callings and Tender Mercies: Part Two

O.K. so first off a big thank you to Andrea, Layne, and Jessica for playing my game.  And thanks to anyone else who has commented but I haven't seen and/or published your comment yet.

Let me give a brief background about church service.  First of all, we do not have a paid ministry.  Members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints give of their time and talents without being paid monetarily.  Some like to say they are paid in the form of blessings received from heaven.  Anyway, last year when my plate was overflowing I asked to be released from my calling as 1st Counselor in the Primary.  Now some might think that this is completely taboo and you simply do not ASK to be released from a calling.  I am living proof that I did not get struck down by lightning for asking to be released.  I did not feel like I was in the position to be able to serve.

Fast forward about 6 months to writing a thesis, finishing up graduate school, completing the rest of my month to month teaching contract, Sarah's health issues on the down-low, personal therapy going well, marriage therapy going better than expected, etc.  By July, I felt like I was in a place emotionally, spiritually, and physically to where I could once again serve in the church.  So I texted my Branch President and told him to put me to work again.  And I e-mailed him.  And I called him.  And I texted again . . .  You get the drift.  He called me in and told me he had been fasting and praying about a calling that would not only be a good fit for me, but something that the Lord would have me do at this point in my life.  And I waited.  And waited.  And waited.  For SEVERAL MONTHS.

Towards the end of October, I was called to be the . . . . . . drumroll please . . .  Branch Employment Specialist.  Yeah.  Me.  Heidiram.  The Branch Employment Specialist.  Do you realize I have little to no experience in this department?????  I started babysitting when I was 9 years old, followed by a couple of nannying stints in college.  In high school I worked for a skin care salon.  Since college, all of my jobs have had some type of teaching involvement.  I've taught ages newborn to ninety.  But ME????  Help OTHERS?  FIND A JOB?

The church has put great efforts into helping members and non-members alike return to school,  find employment, put to use their entrepeneur skills, etc.  For more information visit www.ldsjobs.org.

Our Stake Presidency has been highly encouraging leaders and members of the church to FILL.OUT.THEIR.PERSONAL.PROFILE.   You can customize your profile to meet your needs . . . networking, casually looking for a job, actively looking for a job, etc.  The message we keep getting as employment specialists is how can we expect others to fill out their profile if we haven't completed our own profiles?   (You know, the whole lead by example thing).  I finally got around to completing my profile.  It took me over two months to complete because I couldn't get past the "Me in 30 Second" and "Power Statement" portions.  I finally completed it though.  And guess what?  There was a MATCH in the online job database.  My skills + my education + my interests= job opportunity available.  On a complete whim, I applied for the position.

Within one week of pushing the SEND button of my resume, I received an application, background check, and security clearance forms from the recruiter.  I filled out the application and accompanying paper work.  On Sunday evening, I received an e-mail from the hiring manager who wanted to schedule a job interview with me for Monday.  The interview went very very well.  I got an offer.  And the job starts FEBRUARY 9.  It pays WAY more than I am making now.  Benefits are better than Cristian's company or the school district where I currently work.  The only problem is it starts February 9.  In San Antonio, TX.  And I live in Orlando.  Did I mention the job starts February 9?????  In San Antonio, TX???

I have so many friends and friends of friends who have been unemployed and have searched endlessly for jobs.  We are talking 100, 200, even 300 resumes sent out and job applications filled out.  I have friends who have been unemployed for  6 months, 1 year, and 18 months respectively.  I sent out 1 resume.  I filled out 1 application.  I had one interview WITH THE HIRING MANAGER.  And I got offered the job.  WOW.   Speechless.

Yes, I get annoyed at some of the members in my branch that think that my full-time job is to find THEM a job.  But in the process of my service, look at the door that was opened for me.  Heavenly Father has my back.  He is watching out for me.  I have options.  I have options.  I know, it might sound even crazier than my life is right now . . . but I.HAVE.OPTIONS.  I am grateful for a loving Heavenly Father who looks out for me,helps me, and reminds me on a daily basis that tender mercies abound.

12 comments:

Layne Bushell said...

WOW!!!! Did you know (I'm sure you do now) that the LDS church is the largerst recruiting company? It's amazing.

so now with options in hand....what are you going to do? I remember in Grad school they would always compare CA to TX in terms of similar socioeconomic status, border issues etc. and TX always FAR exceeded CA because they actually put money and a lot of it into their school system.

Might be interesting....can't wait to hear what you decide to do....TX is that much closer to UT....

Papa Nacho said...

As I see it ... it is 1,176.18 miles closer to Utah than where you are now. Driving time = 18 hour 34 minutes closer.

Accordingly, please thank the Bishop (Branch President) for not making you the now defunct Activities Director. As an Employment Specialist, you got that much closer to us.

Keep it up. We will see you soon - maybe one or two more applications?

Padre

Papa Nacho said...

Oh BTW - will the job in Texas require that you learn how to speak "Texan"?

Just wondering.

Padre

PS. You do remember that I love Barbecue don't you. I'm ready to vote!

Papa Nacho said...

Hey Heidi

Talk about tender mercies ...

Southwest has nine flights a day from Salt Lake City to San Antonio and the fares start at $129 each way.

Heck, with that kind of fare, I could come and visit ALL the time. However, please don't join any snooty swim club that won't allow Grandpas to take his Grandchildren swimming though or I may not come.

Padre

grammy said...

You are in T R O U B L E. You are going to need more than a guardian angel when I read about your life on face book.

jessica said...

AWESOME!!!!!! So what are you going to do?

Unknown said...

Holy Cow - are you going to take it? I hear, and I'm not kidding here, that San Antonio is a really great place to live. I would definitely think about it if I were you!!!

heidiram said...

Is it humorous to anyone else or just to me that A. I set this post to publish prior to talking to my parents about this so my mom nearly fell off her chair as she was reading my blog post. B. My dad may or may not have forgotten that I do not have access to blogging and social networking sites while I am at work. He can make 1 million and 1 comments during the school day and there is absolutely NO WAY for me to comment back.

heidiram said...

My kids HAVE to finish out the school year here. S is thriving and doing so well. M loves his gifted program. T graduates from the 8th grade. If the job started mid-April, I could do it. But I simply can not leave my kids here and I move there for 4 months. Anyone recall how well Sarah did during the summer when she went to Utah without me for a little over one week? Do you think she would be able to handle life without mom for 4 months? O.K., so I would fly home to visit, every other week or so but still . . .

And yes, I already figured out the mileage between San Antonio and SLC. Actually not the mileage, but I know it's about a 2 1/2 hour plane flight closer to SCL than Orlando is.

Relo. package was not part of the deal. So in order to make that happen, we need a little bit longer than 3 weeks to make it work.

the wrath of khandrea said...

that's an amazing story, heidi. congratulations on good things happening.

Papa Nacho said...

Just in case you thought I forgot about your lack of access to the social sites during the day ... why do you think I make the comments then?

And I do recall how well Sarah during the summer ... very well until she caught wind you may not come until later. You need to look at the total package and do what works best for you and your family.

Padre (the commenter)

Carla said...

Heids - what the? Okay Paris is NOT an excuse for you not telling me ... But on the other hand - I'm proud of you and proud of the personal and professional accomplishments. You keep going.